If the funeral home is waiting on you right now: tell them what you can pay today and ask what they can hold. Most funeral homes have seen this many times and can delay, reduce, or restructure — and several of the programs below reimburse you afterwards rather than paying up front, so the bill has to be settled somehow first.
Federal programs — the largest amounts, and the least known
These three are open to people in every state. The first is the biggest single source of funeral money in the country and is missing from most lists of this kind.
1. FEMA COVID-19 Funeral Assistance
Up to $9,000 per person who died — the largest funeral benefit available to most families, and still open in 2026.
fema.gov · 844-684-6333
2. VA burial allowance
For veterans, paid to whoever covered the costs.
va.gov · form 21P-530EZ
3. Social Security lump-sum death payment
A one-time payment of $255. Small, but almost nobody claims it and it takes one phone call.
ssa.gov · 1-800-772-1213
Charities and nonprofits
Most funeral charities are narrow — a child, a faith, a region. That is not a flaw; it is how small organisations make a real difference to the families they can reach. Read the eligibility line before you apply.
4. The TEARS Foundation
For families who have lost a baby or a child. The most established organisation of its kind, running several programs by age.
thetearsfoundation.org · (253) 200-0944
5. Kaden's Cause
For families of very young children, anywhere in the country.
kadenscause.org · 859-533-4335
6. Hebrew Free Burial Association
Has provided free Jewish burial since the 1880s, and has buried more than 65,000 people who could not otherwise have been laid to rest properly.
hebrewfreeburial.org · 212-239-1662
7. Catholic Charities — your local diocese
Burial help is common in the Catholic Charities network and open to people of all faiths, but it is worth being clear about how it works.
catholiccharitiesusa.org/about-us/find-a-local-agency/
Your county — the safety net nobody mentions
8. State and county indigent burial programs
Every state has some provision for burying or cremating someone whose family cannot pay. It is the least discussed option and often the one that actually applies.
Advice, not money
9. Funeral Consumers Alliance
This organisation does not give financial assistance, and we have listed it separately so nobody applies expecting money.
funerals.org
When none of these covers the gap
A pattern shows up in the list. Most of it is narrow — a child, a veteran, a faith, one county. Much of it is slow. And the largest, including FEMA, are reimbursements: you pay first.
So a gap is often left. People usually close it the oldest way — those who knew the person contribute toward the cost.
A Better Gift is built for that: a private request shared only with people you choose, funds in your bank in 2-3 business days, no public page, and you keep 100%.
Use the programs above first. If your child has died, apply to TEARS or Kaden's Cause — that is money you do not have to ask anyone for. If the person was a veteran, claim the VA allowance.
Frequently asked questions
What if I cannot afford a funeral at all?
Tell the funeral home before you arrange anything. You are not required to hold a funeral, and direct cremation is legal in every state and costs a fraction of a full service. Then call your county about indigent burial — in most places the county will not leave someone unburied, though the process is not quick and the options are basic.
Is FEMA's funeral assistance still available in 2026?
Yes. As of 2026 the program remains open and no closing date has been announced, though FEMA has said it could close at any time now the national emergency has ended. More than 506,000 applications have been approved. Apply on 844-684-6333 — by phone only, and after the costs have been paid.
Can I get help if the death was not COVID-related and the person was not a veteran?
Then your realistic options are the Social Security $255 payment if you are the surviving spouse, your county's indigent burial program, and any local charity that fits — a diocese, a faith burial society, or a child-specific fund. This is the situation the last section of this page is about.
Do these programs pay the funeral home directly?
It varies, and it matters. Some county programs pay the funeral home directly and require approval before you sign. FEMA reimburses you afterwards. The VA allowance is paid to whoever covered the cost. Ask each one which it is before you commit to anything.
How current is this list?
Every entry was checked in August 2026 against the organisation's own site or a government source. We removed one charity that other lists still carry: its web address now redirects elsewhere and its families are served by Kaden's Cause. Programs do change, so confirm before you rely on any figure here.