Fundraising for Someone Else · Updated 2026

How to Set Up a GoFundMe for Someone Else

Someone you care about needs help and won't ask for it. Maybe they're in the hospital. Maybe they're grieving. Maybe they're the kind of person who has always been the one helping, and being on the other side of it is unbearable. Here's exactly how to raise money on someone else's behalf — on GoFundMe and elsewhere — including the part most guides skip.

The short answer

Yes, you can raise money for someone else. GoFundMe calls it adding a beneficiary: you create the fundraiser, then invite the person to receive the funds directly in their own bank account. You don't need their permission to create it, though most people tell them.

It's one of the most common reasons anyone starts a fundraiser. The person who needs the money is very often the last person willing to ask for it.

How it works on GoFundMe, step by step

  1. Create the fundraiser under your own account, in your own words.
  2. Publish it. The beneficiary invite only becomes available afterward.
  3. Open Transfers and choose "Someone else's bank account."
  4. Enter their first name, last name, and email address. Their name will show publicly on the fundraiser page.
  5. Send the invite. They accept by email, create their own GoFundMe account, and add their bank details.

Once accepted, the page reads "[Your name] is organizing this fundraiser on behalf of [their name]," and money moves to them without passing through you.

What the person you're helping will need

  • A bank account in the same country and currency as the fundraiser
  • Government-issued photo ID, and they must be over 18
  • Official bank statements showing the bank's name, their name as account holder, and the account number
  • An email address they can access

If they can't meet all of these, GoFundMe's own instruction is not to send the invitation.

The part most guides skip

GoFundMe's help documentation is direct about a tradeoff it doesn't advertise. Once a beneficiary is added, their name appears publicly on the fundraiser page. GoFundMe's guidance is that if the beneficiary is concerned about their name showing publicly, for safety or privacy reasons, it may be better for the organizer to receive the funds instead.

And if the person can't complete the banking setup, GoFundMe's documented fallback is to connect your own bank account and transfer the money to them outside GoFundMe — at which point the platform is no longer guaranteeing anything about where the money lands.

So the beneficiary feature works best for someone who is willing to be named publicly and able to complete a verification process. That describes some people. It does not describe someone who is too embarrassed to have asked in the first place.

When GoFundMe is the right choice

Use it when reach matters more than discretion: a house fire the whole town knows about, a child's medical fight where strangers genuinely do give, a death that made the local news. Public discovery is the product. It works.

When a private request fits better

If the circle is thirty people who already know — the family, the church, the people at work — public reach isn't doing anything for you, and the exposure costs something real.

A Better Gift is built for that case. You create the request, tick a box that says you're raising for someone else, and enter their name. There's no invite to send, no account for them to create, no ID to upload. Funds land in your bank account and you pass them on, which is what would have happened anyway. The request is private by default, public only if you choose. Nobody searching their name finds it.

A private way to raise for someone else

A Better Gift: raise for someone else, privately

Create the request, mark that you're raising for someone else, and enter their name. No invite to send, no account for them to create, no ID to upload — funds land in your bank and you pass them on.

  • Private by default — public only if you choose; nobody searching their name finds it
  • Nothing required of them — no account, no verification, no public name
  • Funds in 2-3 business days — straight to your bank through Stripe, then to them
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Frequently asked questions

Can I start a GoFundMe for someone without telling them?
Yes. Nothing requires the person's permission to create a fundraiser on their behalf. It happens constantly, usually because the person who needs help is too proud or too embarrassed to ask. On GoFundMe they will find out eventually — the beneficiary invite requires them to accept it and set up banking. On A Better Gift they don't have to do anything at all.
Does their name have to be public?
On GoFundMe, yes — once added as a beneficiary, their name shows on the fundraiser page. GoFundMe suggests a nickname if that's a problem, though the legal name is still required for bank transfers. On a private request the name is visible to the people you share with and nowhere else.
What if they don't have a bank account?
They can't be a GoFundMe beneficiary. GoFundMe's answer is for you to receive the funds and pass them on outside the platform. A Better Gift works that way by default — funds go to your account and you handle the rest.
Who pays the fees?
On GoFundMe, payment processing of 2.9% plus $0.30 comes out of each donation, so the recipient nets about 96.8%. On A Better Gift the 6.9% service fee is paid by the contributor on top of their gift, so the recipient receives 100% of what was given.
Can I do this for a funeral?
Yes, and it's one of the most common cases. The spouse or parent handling arrangements is often the least able to ask. See our guide to funeral costs.
How fast does the money arrive?
GoFundMe takes 2-5 business days after a withdrawal is requested. A Better Gift routes through Stripe Connect directly to the recipient's bank in 2-3 business days with no platform holding period.

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